Perfect

For all the little girls growing up in today’s world. And especially for my daughter who is beautiful just as she is, and who should never conform to anyone’s standard of beauty

 

Let’s count the many ways that you are perfect

Your hair, halfway between brown and black

Your eyebrows, thick and full

Your eyes, wide and full and filled with light

Your nose, a little too wide, just like your mother’s

Your lips, pink and tiny and a shape never before seen

Your cheeks, full and chubby, ideal contours

Your hue, the shade of a half ripe mango

Your arms and fists, uniquely freckled

Your legs, long and lean and endless

Your feet, huge like your dad’s, yet graceful

 

Now let’s count the real ways that you are perfect

Your genuine smile, soul-lifting and freely shared

The delight that you find in simple pleasures

Your knack for asking soul searching questions

Your helping hand, always willingly offered

Your sense of family, of togetherness

Your empathy for the underprivileged

Your hard work ethic and tenacity of purpose

Your discerning and probing spirit

Your artistic beautiful soul

And the generosity of your spirit

 

Daughter of my womb

Apple of my eyes

You have a beautiful container of a body

It might never conform to everyone’s standard

But it is beautiful because it is yours

And better still, your content is perfect

It will never conform to everyone’s expectation

But it is perfect because it is you

You, forged by a perfect God

 

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4 Comments

  1. Reading this generously descriptive and detailed appreciation of a girl child, I am happy to be a father of one. Thank you, Folalemi, for making us to see our female children in a beautiful and wholesome light. If we would always hold our children, both male and female, in this grander and holistic light, none would grow up ‘lost’, battered mentally and emotionally.

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  2. Reading this generously descriptive and detailed appreciation of a girl child, I am happy to be a father of one. Thank you, Folalemi, for making us to see our female children in a beautiful and wholesome light. If we would always hold our child, both male and female, in this grander and holistic light, none would grow up ‘lost’, battered mentally and emotionally

    Liked by 1 person

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